Take the first step and gain some positive vibes. At first Tess was unaware that she could control her fate, and she therefore suffers greatly for it. Your future is yours and you have to right to control it.
For instance, if you go to a party and meet the perfect guy that was fate. Don't sit back and let someone or something else guide you along; take the wheel and drive towards your own destination But sometimes you need to be brave enough to go.
Having confidence in you is just the first step. This goes back to creating a life for yourself that is in line with your authenticity.
However, some also consider the possibility that one's own choices can determine the reality of one's existence.